Grandparents Have Custody Rights Too!

Divorce is escalating at a frightening rate, and more and more grandparents  are experiencing fear and despondency regarding the fate of their beloved grandchildren. 

* If you have difficulty seeing your grandchildren on a steady basis or you may have been denied access visits altogether,
*If after a small fight or minor disagreement you find that you are not allowed to visit or your Grandkids are denied sleepovers at your home… even gifts are not allowed to be given; you realize that you are being paid back for getting “out of line.” (Sometimes this happens for just making suggestions to your daughter or son-in-law.),
* If you suspect, or even know, that they are neglected and possibly abused; maybe even left alone for long periods of time without loving supervision or protection,
* If you fear that they are being unduly disciplined by some “stranger” who has moved in with the child’s parent,
* If you you have heard “inklings” from neighbors, or relatives, or the child, about drugs and parties, and many “friends” coming and going,
* If you have found out that they are being "warehoused" in daycare,
* If you realize that they have been "given" to the other Grandparents...


Then you need the Grandparents`s Rights Manual which will tell you what you can do and what your options are.

It presents information in a clear and concise manner about what is happening on both a national and a state basis- and covers the specific state regulations for all fifty states.

This 129 page report presents the most current information available. It will show you clearly what your options are in helping your grandchildren. 

IT ALSO INCLUDES: The most up-to-date "precedent setting" legal cases and legal opinions from throughout the United States. 

If you are planning to go to Court to get an order for access to your grandchildren, then you need Grandparents Going to Court to Assert Their Rights which will show you how to go about it and what to expect from the process. This book covers everything from how to testify in court to what to wear in court.Click Here!

Grandparents Have Custody Rights Too!

Divorce is escalating at a frightening rate, and more and more grandparents  are experiencing fear and despondency regarding the fate of their beloved grandchildren. 

* If you have difficulty seeing your grandchildren on a steady basis or you may have been denied access visits altogether,
*If after a small fight or minor disagreement you find that you are not allowed to visit or your Grandkids are denied sleepovers at your home… even gifts are not allowed to be given; you realize that you are being paid back for getting “out of line.” (Sometimes this happens for just making suggestions to your daughter or son-in-law.),
* If you suspect, or even know, that they are neglected and possibly abused; maybe even left alone for long periods of time without loving supervision or protection,
* If you fear that they are being unduly disciplined by some “stranger” who has moved in with the child’s parent,
* If you you have heard “inklings” from neighbors, or relatives, or the child, about drugs and parties, and many “friends” coming and going,
* If you have found out that they are being "warehoused" in daycare,
* If you realize that they have been "given" to the other Grandparents...


Then you need the Grandparents`s Rights Manual which will tell you what you can do and what your options are.

It presents information in a clear and concise manner about what is happening on both a national and a state basis- and covers the specific state regulations for all fifty states.

This 129 page report presents the most current information available. It will show you clearly what your options are in helping your grandchildren. 

IT ALSO INCLUDES: The most up-to-date "precedent setting" legal cases and legal opinions from throughout the United States. 

If you are planning to go to Court to get an order for access to your grandchildren, then you need Grandparents Going to Court to Assert Their Rights which will show you how to go about it and what to expect from the process. This book covers everything from how to testify in court to what to wear in court.Click Here!

Parental Alienation - How to Stop it and Win Custody

One of the saddest situations happens when a child has been bribed or manipulated into turning against the other parent during or after a custody battle.  Often, this parent is the better of the two parents. 


Take one parent, for example: a warm and hard-working professional, who runs into all of the following from their ten year old daughter, when they try to phone or comes to pick the girl up for an access visit:
"I don't want to talk now. I'm busy." (The child slams the phone down.)
"You know I don't like to see you!"
"You're bothering us; don't call me !" (The parent, rightly so, wonders who the "us" is in this statement.)
This parent frequently hears what is a sure sign of a bribed or manipulated child.  Words and sentences that are obviously not of the child's own creation, but rather from the bitter and vindictive other parent:
"You decided to leave us. This is all your fault. You're not entitled to share in my life anymore."
This is a classic case of parental alienation.


Unfortunately, most parents singled out to be the victims of such vitriolic attacks are poorly equipped to deal with them. They start out trying to be calm and loving, but all too soon are worn down by the hurt, frustration and road blocks continuously thrown up when they attempt contacts with the child. They end up either retreating, or counter-attacking---neither of which can lead to a happy outcome. It is essential that parents caught up in this kind of trap learn the four strategies that can be truly effective and helpful in this situation.Click Here!

Win Custody of Your Children - Doctors Bricklin and Elliot will show you how...

Excerpt from a letter written by Dr. Bricklin and Dr. Elliot, two experts in the field of Child Custody:


Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Please---we do not want to hear these words from YOU…it's much easier to win the first time around then to re-open your case later.

If you are presently involved in a child custody dispute (or might be involved in one in the future) we have identified information of great importance that you should have.

THIS INFORMATION WILL HELP YOU MAKE YOUR STRONGEST CASE FOR CUSTODY. It will also directly help protect your children now and in the future. Your children will thank you one day for taking "their best interests" seriously!

First, we would like you to know how we have come to be in possession of so much important information. Over the 30-plus years of our working in the child custody field, we have become increasingly involved in cases that frequently may find their way into court. We have acted as expert witnesses, custody evaluators or consultants for hundreds of parents involved in custody disputes all over the country.
Further, as editors of a national publication on custody matters, as responders to a 24-hour "hotline" where we answer questions from professionals about our tests, and as directors of a national organization of custody experts, we continually hear from judges, attorneys, professional experts and parents who in one way or another have been caught up in custody disputes, some of them simple, but most longstanding, complex and bitter.

As a result of all of these activities, we came to gather a huge amount of information on how various psychological and legal strategies, different kinds of evidence, and types of allegations work (or fail to work), both in the courtroom as well as in out-of-court negotiations.
The following are some of our thoughts on what we have experienced. Everything discussed here is covered in our new Strategies handbook.
We were shocked at how many bright, wise, loving---indeed even "savvy"---parents did not know the single most important fact that must be true if one is to prevail in a custody dispute. And this must be the best kept secret in the world, because even extremely intelligent, sophisticated professionals fail to make use of it. Indeed, even attorneys, who themselves as parents are caught up in custody disputes, frequently do not know how to make his single most important factor work for them.
We identified fourteen "key behaviors" that differentiate between parents who do well in custody disputes from those who do not. We consider these behaviors to be strategically critical.
We have identified what we see as the single biggest mistake a parent in a custody dispute can make. And the irony here is that our own legal system actually encourages parents to make this huge mistake.
If you are a parent in a child custody dispute, you must learn to recognize (and deal with) blatantly wrong and immoral strategies that will likely be used against you. To add insult to injury, these strategies can be effective. And in our experience, many attorneys fail to help their clients deal with these tragically effective strategies, because they are more psychological than legal strategies, and attorneys are not often trained either to recognize or deal with them.
Another exceedingly important point is that too many parents do not fully understand all the important things their attorneys should be doing for them. Simply put, many parents do not know what they should ask for.
While on the topic of attorneys, we also discovered two important strategies that will literally "force" an attorney to do a better job for a client.Click Here!


Abridged Biographies of Dr. Bricklin Dr. Elliot of the Child Custody Center

DR. BARRY BRICKLIN 
~~Dr. Bricklin is a psychologist in private practice. He is an Adjunct Associate Professor at Widener University and has previously served on the faculty of Jefferson University and of Hahnneman University. He has served as a consultant in psychology to the Walter Reed Army Hospital Research Center, to the United States Army, to the New York Academy of Medicine, and to the Columbia Broadcasting System.
~For over 25 years, Dr. Bricklin has developed various data-based approaches to the decisions which must be made when parents divorce.
~~Dr. Bricklin's book, The Custody Evaluation Handbook is published by Brunner/Mazel and is currently in wide-spread use by mental health professionals in the United States and Canada.
~~Dr. Bricklin is presently Chair of the Executive Operating Committee of the Professional Academy of Custody Evaluators (PACE). 

DR. GAIL ELLIOT

~~ Dr. Elliot is Head, Child Development and Family Processes Research, Bricklin Associates, the Vice Chair of the Professional Academy of Custody Evaluators and a psychologist in private practice. She has served as a consultant to public and private schools and coordinated multidisciplinary treatment plans. She was responsible for devising for Bricklin Associates an information-processing oriented educational therapy technique and a comprehensive college entrance service for children with serious motivational problems and low self-esteem problems.
~~Dr. Elliot authored a chapter on post-divorce research for The Custody Evaluation Handbook (Brunner/Mazel) and co-authored Parent Perception of Child Profile (PPCP), a widely used custody evaluation instrument. She was responsible for much of the research behind the Bricklin custody instruments, and is co-author with Dr. Bricklin of ACCESS (A Comprehensive Custody Evaluation Standard System) a start-to-finish procedure for conducting a comprehensive custody evaluation. In late 1997 Dr. Elliot co-authored, with Dr. Bricklin, The Bricklin/Elliot Child Custody Evaluation Home-Vist Booklet and authored Assessment of Parenting Skills: Infant and Preschooler (APSIP)

Custody Centre's Dr.Bricklin and Dr. Elliot show you how to secure Custody of your Children

Doctors Bricklin and Elliot, two reknowned pyschologists who run the Child Custody Centre, have developed ebook and online products that are instantly downloadable and which give you the latest, most precise and practical advice when you are fighting for custody of your children.  See their message below:


"We have seen the cases where mothers failed to prevail because they had minor physical illnesses that were neither life-threatening nor related to childcare abilities. Finally (but of major importance) we learned ways a mother caught up in a custody dispute can control costs.
It has made us sad and sick at how often it is blatantly obvious that the wrong parent often wins during the custody process. The best parent loses; the parent who operates "in the best interests of the child" loses! Why? Because it is surprising how many mothers, even very bright, professional people, do not know how to make their best case--even with their own attorneys!
You will find the answers and solutions to EVERYTHING discussed in this letter in our new "Strategies" handbook written for mothers involved in custody disputes.
Unlike a hardcover book, that can take a year or two to produce, we are able to review and update whenever necessary by using the latest information as it becomes available to us through our continuing contact with judges, attorneys, mental health professionals, other parents, the latest scientific research, and experts on many special and unique problems that may arise.
YOU ARE ALWAYS PURCHASING THE LATEST, MOST UP-TO-DATE VERSION!
Finally, it is very important to us, as people (and parents ourselves) who on a daily basis witness what can go wrong for a mother caught up in a custody dispute, that we may be able to help you avoid mistakes that can prove disastrous.
Good luck!"Click Here!
Dr. Barry Bricklin and Dr. Gail Elliot

Co-Parenting Nightmare - Are you and your children living in terror?

With the prevalence of substance abuse and mental illness in society today, many people find themselves in the situation of co-parenting with someone who is "crazy", psychotic or impaired by drug or alcohol abuse. If you  are worried about your children's future and desparately need information to help them cope, then you need Annie Parron's ebook which will save you years of wasted money, effort and tears.

If you are:

• Scared when your children have access with the other parent because you know you can't trust him or her to take proper care of your children
• In the middle of a contested custody battle or constantly going to court over custody of the children
• Trying to maintain a good relationship with your children while the other parent is trying to alienate them from you.
• Spending your time putting out fires that were created by the co-parent as well as taking most of the parenting and financial responsibility for your children.....

If your ex-spouse has been or is:

• diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder or another personality disorder
• bipolar and untreated or inconsistent with treatment
• an active substance abuser
• physically, emotionally or sexually abusive
• certifiable but just hasn't been diagnosed yet

You'll LEARN how to:

1. Take care of you
2. Take care of your children
3. Help your children cope
4. Protect yourself and your children legally and physically
5. Choose a lawyer and a therapist
6. Deal with common "crazy" co-parent behaviour
7. Communicate with an "insane" co-parent
8. And much more....Click Here!